On the third day a wedding took place at Cana in Galilee. Jesus’ mother was there, and Jesus and His disciples had also been invited to the wedding. When the wine ran out, Jesus’ mother said to Him, “They have no more wine.”
“Woman, why does this concern us?” Jesus replied. “My hour has not yet come.” (John 2:1-4)
I can relate to this wedding dilemna! For my son’s rehearsal dinner, we put a lot of effort into making it really nice. We held it at an upscale restaurant. There were special decorations. I created a video. We planned activities.
The price of catering included wine for a certain period of time. As the event went overtime, the maitre d’ came to my husband and whispered that if anyone wanted another drink, it would incur an extra charge. It was a moment of counting the cost, because we were already spending a good deal of money. But my husband was feeling joyful and magnanimous. He said, “Sure, let them have more if they would like.” It turned out that everyone had had enough, so it all worked out.
But the point is that we wanted the rehearsal dinner to be super special. I’m sure the people in charge of the wedding at Cana felt the same. For them, running out of wine in the middle of the celebration would have been a huge downer.
So it’s no wonder that Jesus’s mom stepped in to try and alleviate the situation. She knew and cared about the young couple and their families. She didn’t want them to experience this discouraging failure at the time that should be the biggest celebration of their life.
Mary didn’t think twice about going to Jesus and asking him for help. And Jesus let her know that this request was uncool. It was putting him out. It wasn’t his time to do miracles yet.
Yet, if we continue to read the story, we see that Jesus didn’t hold back. He honored his mother’s request. He used his powers and saved the day.
This story really helps my heart. Sometimes I feel like I’m asking Jesus for something that is inappropriate. I mean, he’s the Son of God. My request is surely small next to the needs of the world. It isn’t a salvation issue. I’m not asking him to alleviate something grave like world hunger. How can I bother Jesus with my little matter? He has to have more important things on his agenda.
But this passage reminds me that Jesus cares about the day-to-day things going on in my life. His heart was moved to help his mother. I’m loved by him, and his heart can be moved to help me as well.
And in the story, Jesus didn’t just tell them how much he cared, or help in a token way. He helped in a huge way. He totally fixed it.
He performed a miracle. I’ve heard it so many times, that I forget how utterly amazing it is that Jesus changed water to wine. I have a Brita pitcher of water on my kitchen counter right now. If someone waved their hand over it and then poured me a cup of Burgundy, I would be astounded. My heart would be racing.
That’s the kind of Savior we go to with our concerns. We pray to God in his name. He cares, and he has the power to fix them, no matter how impossible they seem.
So what are you running out of? Okay, maybe it’s not wine. But it could be money, or a another resource. It could be time. I confess that, lately, I’ve been running out of hope.
Several months ago, I put a situation on my prayer list that had been stuck for years. For awhile, it got even more stuck. But then one event occurred that was exactly what was needed to shake things up. This led to more actions that really got the situation turned around. It has been amazing. The changes are still in progress, but, I’m telling you, it’s a true miracle!
Don’t think twice about taking your depleted situation to Jesus. He loves you deeply! You can ask, and his heart will be moved. You won’t be inconveniencing him. It’s not too small a request. And if it’s in the scheme of God’s good will, Jesus won’t hold back. He’ll totally fix it.
Last night at our midweek house church, we ate fresh peach cobbler with ice cream, made from peaches I picked from my tree. We didn’t study the Bible this time. We just sat, and were close and shared our lives with one another. I felt such an atmosphere of love.
And I knew that this was a thumbnail of the warmth that Jesus has towards us — such a deep, encompassing, nurturing love.
When I think of it like that, I’m like, this is how we’re walking around in life. We’re cushioned by love. It’s natural to share our heart and requests with Jesus, and know that they will resonate with him and be honored.
Mary knew that was her reality. Let’s remember that it’s ours as well.